What dressing was on my salad?

At a dinner party(yeah I know Im sorry, I'm and asshole), pornography became the rich subject of the evening.  Is pornography able to be infiltrated with sensual art, or is the reason it exists is that it provides instantanious gratification with no reason to become anything else?  And also, are these images enough for the common man to sustain, or are there ways to explore other ways of personal gratification and sensuality?

My answer is that men want to see vag and then explode into a hanky.  Thats it.  That is really it.  No emotion, no sensuality.  Sensuality happens with human contact.  If it is by yourself, it is a bit sad.  No candles should be lit, no oils topically placed.  A narrative film should not be watched with the sole purpose of enhancing arousal simply due to a gratuitous sex scene.  Most men, when masturbating, don't think about complex ideas of love or emotion.  Look at the vag and breasts of hot women on the information super highway, blow the load, then back to the real world.  This is not by any means an indication of the extent of their ability to be romantic, sensual or loving.  It is a fantasy.  A PERSONAL fantasy.  It's a case of, "I want her so bad, but I could never have her.  She'll be in my thoughts though."  Fantastic blog by the way.